St. Valentine’s Day has become Christmas, Phase II. Once a day of construction paper doily
handmade cards is now consumerism at full tilt boogie. A day of mad dashing to florists, card shops, chocolatiers, and jewelers. If you see your glass as half full you probably find these antics romantic and sweet. If your glass is half empty you might see this day as wasteful. Well, I guess a person whose glass is half full can also see this day as wasteful. I’m one of them! I want chocolate and jewelry on random days not just forced upon us holidays. Mostly, I want less packaging and disposable needless junk. And, did I mention I want chocolate and jewelry. So right about now you think this is a post about insuring the jewelry your Valentine got you. It’s not. This blog post is about the day after St. Valentine’s Day.
Valentine’s Day should mean Insurance
February fifteenth starts what the legal industry calls “divorce season”. More divorces are filed between mid-February to June than any other time in the year. The majority are filed right after St. Valentine’s Day. The reasons are easy to deduce; get through the holidays and the most romantic day of the year before the most un-romantic business of divorce. You may be thinking what kind of a jerk would write a post about divorce on St. Valentine’s Day? Well, this post isn’t about Divorce and for those interested the writer of it has (let’s just say) firsthand knowledge of divorce. Despite that, you may be surprised or even shocked to learn how dear I hold the virtues of love, marriage, and St. Valentine’s Day. This post is about the later. Until now you may be unaware of the important role proper insurance and legal work has in a marriage. In general the business part of matrimony is wildly underestimated and overlooked.
Most people just get married and don’t think about legal or business issues until there is a problem. I want our clients to avoid problems. I want you to call Connell & Curley today to assess your risks and work on protecting your assets and family. So, if you or someone you know is about to get married or engaged, perhaps today, congratulations! Marriage is a journey and it can be a beautiful one.
Part of Marriage is a business, don’t neglect the basics, like insurance
Marriage does, however, require work. The business end of a union must be understood by both parties otherwise there may be problems. I always tell clients to fail-safe their insurance and legal work and then work at needing neither. Marriage is a legal contract. In the eyes of the law, two become one entity with separate moving parts. To illustrate that in a broad overview consider this scenario: You and your spouse own two vehicles used to commute independently on the Mass Pike in opposite directions each day. What is the exposure in terms of liability, one car and driver or two? The answer is three
(possibly more): each car and driver and the couple as a whole. If one of you caused an accident there are several variables to consider. Who was driving? Who owns the car? Does the driver or owner of the car own a home? Does the driver or owner of the car expect their career to flourish or inherit a beach house from a long lost relative? Is the driver or owner of the car part of a trust? If these threats sound farfetched I would encourage you to sit in a courtroom any random day.
I also like to remind people that the division between what is legal and moral is vast and wide. Over the years I’ve seen many divorcing couples stop paying automobile insurance they had paid for years prior without telling their spouse. If you don’t own the car, it’s in your spouse’s name, then why would you want to pay for it during a divorce? The spouse driving around (perhaps with children) ends up driving illegally. With any luck no accident occurs but he/she may end up in jail with the car towed and the children inside the police station because the other spouse didn’t feel they had a responsibility. This is just one of the many reasons I like to see both spouses’ names on a title. Over the years I’ve come to recognize that many couples split tasks. One might make decisions about retirement and the other might handle household investments. However, shared information is the key and access to it crucial.
The old adage, “knowledge is power” and another one comes to mind, “all’s fair in love and war”. I’ve seen many couples where one party was kept in the dark about finances/insurance and then devastated to find out how the other one managed when it was too late.
So, why would I want to think about such un-pleasantries on St. Valentine’s Day? Love. The answer is love. It’s all you need, right? Show your Valentine how much you love him/her by placing a call to your independent insurance broker, Connell Curley 508-655-1112. Take the time to learn about the importance of shared liability, Life Insurance, and the power of that knowledge. The importance of these issues will last much longer than roses however, I recommend you do both. Call us AND buy a Valentine (chocolate and jewelry)!







stop light yesterday when I noticed a license plate that made me grin. It was a standard issue Massachusetts registration, not a special order “vanity” or “lottery” plate. However, what made the plate noteworthy were the last three randomly chosen digits, “WTF”. My grimace turned to a literal laugh out loud (LOL) moment when I noticed the car was being driven by a senior. I started thinking of all kinds of scenarios for potential hilarity. Imagine all the thumbs up gestures, friendly honks, and high fives. Thinking about all this gave me a severe case of plate envy. It also got me thinking how acronyms have become increasingly important in communication. This in turn got me thinking about insurance. O.K., I admit to almost everything making me think about insurance!
you are looking at a field of trees bearing apples and the apples represent an auto policy. In a grove of so many trees how do you choose? Remembering the farmer knows when the trees blossomed and therefore the best time to pick certain trees. Important information when you consider that a post ripe apple is just compost. The farmer is very much like an independent insurance agent. You could charge out into the field to pick your own without consulting but you might end up in the thick where others have already picked the best. Believe it or not this somewhat occurs in the insurance industry. Insurance companies can only write a set amount of certain risks. Also many companies favor “bundled” accounts and great emphasis is made on writing not just one auto policy but auto and another product like home. These companies want to sell you a bushel not just a single fruit. If you didn’t consult the farmer (independent insurance agent) you might buy an apple that is priced to sell as a bushel. Many people don’t know the difference between an independent insurance agent and a direct writer.